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How to change your name while separated, before divorce
If you’re separated and considering a name change, you’re not alone. Many individuals, especially women who took their husband’s surname after marriage wonder whether they have to wait until the divorce is finalised to revert to their maiden name or choose a new one. The good news is you don’t need to wait for a divorce to change your name under UK law, you can change your name at any time, including while you’re separated or before your divorce is final. Whether you want to return to your maiden name or choose a brand new name entirely, this can be done legally by applying for a Deed Poll.
Changing your name before divorce
Here’s how to change your name while still legally married:
Apply for a Deed Poll: A Deed Poll is a legal document that proves you’ve changed your name. You don’t need to wait for your divorce to be finalised to use it.
Update Your Records: Once your Deed Poll is complete, you can use it to change your name across all official documents such as Passport, Driving licence, Bank accounts, Utility bills, Employment records etc.
Key points for women who took their husband’s surname
• You do not need your spouse’s permission to change your surname.
• You can revert to your maiden name or choose a new name at any time.
• Your title (Mrs/Miss/Ms) can also be changed if you wish—it’s entirely your choice and can be included in your Deed Poll declaration.
• Changing your name by Deed Poll does not affect any divorce proceedings—whether they’ve started or not. The only requirement is that you notify your partner or legal representative so future documentation reflects your new name.
Can I change my child’s surname too?
If you wish to change your child’s surname to match your new name or create a double-barrelled surname (e.g., combining yours and your ex-partner’s surnames), this can also be done via Deed Poll. However, you must get written consent from everyone with parental responsibility, which usually includes your spouse.
Why people choose to change their name before divorce
Emotional closure
Changing your name can be a powerful step toward reclaiming your identity and gaining closure from a past relationship.
Professional or social continuity
If you’ve already started using a different name at work or socially, making it official can prevent confusion.
No need to change again later
Once you change your name by Deed Poll, it is your legal name—you won’t need to change it again after your divorce unless you choose to.
FAQs: Name change while separated or before divorce
Q: Do I need my partner’s consent to change my name?
No. You can legally change your name without your partner’s permission.
Q: Will changing my name affect my divorce?
No. It has no effect on your divorce proceedings. Just inform your solicitor and your ex-partner of your new name.
Q: Can I change my first or middle names too?
Yes. A Deed Poll allows you to change, add, or remove your first, middle, or last names.
Q: Do I need to change my name again after divorce?
No. The name you choose by Deed Poll is your legal name, regardless of your marital status—even after receiving your decree absolute.
Q: Can I change my child’s surname too?
Yes, but only with the written consent of everyone with parental responsibility, which usually includes your spouse.